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Your Secret to Success -
Have a vision of Who you are and Who you want to be
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Life
Mapping: A Vision of Success
Success
is more than economic gains, titles, and degrees. Planning for success
is about mapping out all the aspects of your life. Similar to a
map, you need to define the following details: origin, destination,
vehicle, backpack, landmarks, and route.
Origin:
Who you are - A map has a starting point. Your origin is who
you are right now. Most people when asked to introduce themselves
would say, “Hi, I’m Jean and I am a 17-year old, senior highschool
student.” It does not tell you about who Jean is; it only tells
you her present preoccupation. To
gain insights about yourself, you need to look closely at your beliefs,
values, and principles aside from your economic, professional, cultural,
and civil status. Moreover, you can also reflect on your experiences
to give you insights on your good and not-so-good traits, skills,
knowledge, strengths, and weaknesses. Upon
introspection, Jean realized that she was highly motivated, generous,
service-oriented, but impatient. Her inclination was in the biological-medical
field. Furthermore, she believed that life must serve a purpose,
and that wars were destructive to human dignity.
Destination:
A vision of who you want to be - “Who do want to be?” - this
is your vision. Now it is important that you know yourself so that
you would have a clearer idea of who you want to be; and the things
you want to change whether they are attitudes, habits, or points
of view. If
you hardly know yourself, then your vision and targets for the future
would also be unclear. Your destination should cover all the aspects
of your being: the physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual. Continuing
Jean’s story, after she defined her beliefs, values, and principles
in life, she decided that she wanted to have a life dedicated in
serving her fellowmen.
Vehicle:
Your Mission - A vehicle is the means by which you can reach
your destination. It can be analogized to your mission or vocation
in life. To a great extent, your mission would depend on what you
know about yourself. Based
on Jean’s self-assessment, she decided that she was suited to become
a doctor, and that she wanted to become one. Her chosen vocation
was a medical doctor. Describing her vision-mission fully: it was
to live a life dedicated to serving her fellowmen as a doctor in
conflict-areas.
Backpack:
Your knowledge, skills, and attitude - Food, drinks, medicines,
and other travelling necessities are contained in a bag. Applying
this concept to your life map, you also bring with you certain knowledge,
skills, and attitudes. These determine your competence and help
you in attaining your vision. Given
such, there is a need for you to assess what knowledge, skills,
and attitudes you have at present and what you need to gain along
the way. This two-fold assessment will give you insights on your
landmarks or measures of success. Jean
realized that she needed to gain professional knowledge and skills
on medicine so that she could become a doctor. She knew that she
was a bit impatient with people so she realized that this was something
she wanted to change.
Landmarks
and Route: S.M.A.R.T. objectives - Landmarks confirm if you
are on the right track while the route determines the travel time.
Thus, in planning out your life, you also need to have landmarks
and a route. These landmarks are your measures of success. These
measures must be specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, and
time bound. Thus you cannot set two major landmarks such as earning
a master’s degree and a doctorate degree within a period of three
years, since the minimum number of years to complete a master’s
degree is two years. Going
back to Jean as an example, she identified the following landmarks
in her life map:
- completing
a bachelor’s degree in biology by the age of 21; completing
medicine by the age of 27; earning
her specialization in infectious diseases by the age of 30; getting
deployed in local public hospitals of their town by the age of
32;
- and
serving as doctor in war-torn areas by the age of 35.
Anticipate
Turns, Detours, and Potholes The purpose of your life map is to
minimize hasty and spur-of-the-moment decisions that can make you
lose your way. But oftentimes our plans are modified along the way
due to some inconveniences, delays, and other situations beyond
our control. Like in any path, there are turns, detours, and potholes
thus; we must anticipate them and adjust accordingly.
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